“[T]he evidence is clear that children who grow up in a family with a mother and a father do better in all parameters than children without.” That’s according to the Doctors for the Family’s submission to the Senate Inquiry into Marriage Equality. And it’s rightly generated a lot of criticism over the past few days.
It’s unfortunate that a group of 150 doctors, which doesn’t represent the academic consensus on the issue, has been given such a high profile. The Conversation’s medical blogger, Michael Vagg, has already critiqued the sources of the group’s so-called “evidence”. But what does the research really show?
We need only look back to 2007 to find a review by the Australian Psychological Society. The academic literature on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered families states that the “research does not support negative assumptions about the experiences or outcomes of children of lesbian mothers.”
This view was foreshadowed by the American Academy of Pediatrics which concluded in 2002 that there was no systematic difference in the psychological well-being of children with same-sex attracted parents. It’s the quality and type of relationship – both between and with parents – that matters most.

A synthesis of research from numerous studies followed in 2004 and suggested that parent-child relationships were slightly better in same-sex families.
Longitudinal research from the United Kingdom has shown that social acceptance, close friendships and peer relationships were no different for children with lesbian mothers when compared with other families. And population-based studies from the United States have even suggested that these children were more connected at school.
This is just a snapshot of a continuing body of research. Critics highlight the small sample sizes across all these studies and the almost universal focus on lesbian mothers. What’s needed now is a broader approach that accurately reflects the complex issues at play and incorporates all forms of parenting by same-sex attracted people.
That’s what we’re aiming to do with the Australian Study of Child Health in Same-Sex Families. For the first time we’re capturing the complete physical, mental and social well-being of up to 750 children with at least one same-sex attracted parent. We’re currently recruiting families with children aged under 18 where at least one parent identifies as being same-sex attracted. So this includes bisexual and transgender parents.
Our research is not about marriage equality; although the stability that this might bring to same-sex families can only be a good thing. Our study is about optimising the health and well-being of children and aims to provide a strong evidence base from which this can be achieved.

As public health researchers, we recognise the weight of evidence that demonstrates children with same-sex attracted parents are generally doing very well. But we also acknowledge concerns about the impact that stigma and discrimination could potentially have on these children. In countries where there’s a lot of perceived stigma – most notably, the United States – children face definite challenges coping with homophobic attitudes.
Groups such as Doctors for the Family only serve to propagate such stigma and discrimination. Contrary to their stated objective to “ensure a healthy future for our children,” they’re harming the very people they claim to protect.
As doctors, we’re trained to critically appraise evidence. And it’s our responsibility to present this information, in a balanced manner, to the public. To state that there is clear evidence that children who grow up in a family with a mother and a father do better in all parameters than children without is failing in this duty.
If you’re interested in being part of the Australian Study of Child Health in Same-Sex Families, please email me at admin@achess.org.au or visit our website. The study is part of the Jack Brockhoff Child Health and Wellbeing Program at the McCaughey VicHealth Centre in the Melbourne School of Population Health.
Gregor Napier Cutlack
Builder/Farmer
Why the hype from these "Family Doctors"?
I could understand the same submission coming from The Meat Eaters-Beer Swillers and Womanisers Inc.
Jack Arnold
Director
This research appears to be predicated on the hypothesis that two same sex parents can do at least as good a job as a natural heterosexual parent couple. From hard personal experience this hypothesis is faulty to say the least.
Hugh Sturgess
Student
How many same-sex parents have you met?
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Luke Mancell
Equities trader
Anecdotal evidence wasn't included in this study. We all know what the anecdotal evidence showed. That anecdotal evidence is contradicted by real studies.
I know bad parents. I've lived next door to bad parents. These people were heterosexuals and married... authorized parents. They were drunk and fighting most of the time. The kids were neglected or yelled at. I don't say that this was because they were heterosexuals any more than I say that is was because they lived in an odd numbered house. They were bad parents because they were jerks.
No-one is saying that GLBTI people are all inherently brilliant parents. I am only saying that their parenting results are much the same as heterosexual parents and that claiming marriage equality harms children is an invalid argument.
Daniel Cantrill
Student, community work volunteer
With all due respect Jack, using personal experience to fault an assumed hypothesis does not appear, to the reader at least, very critical in thought. From my understanding this research is exploring the health journey within families with at least one same-sex oriented person as a parent.
Dale Bloom
Analyst
There are a number of concerns from the “Doctors of the Family” that should be given much thought.
“- the risk of vilification, if we voice our belief that every child needs a mother and a father, will gain further legitimacy
- likewise freedom of speech and belief regarding the position we believe marriage has in society will be more limited.”
http://www.doctors4family.com.au/marriage/
Similar has been occurring for those who have suggested that there are too many single parent families, too many children without a father, and too many de facto relationships.
They are often vilified and marginalised particularly by feminists, and the true facts about fatherhood and marriage rarely known.
The true facts about homosexual couples might never be known also.
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Sue Ieraci
Public hospital clinician
I doubt that there is such a thing as "true facts about homosexual couples", just like there is no such thing as "true facts about heterosexual couples" - whether married or not.
There are stable and unstable couples. There are extended families and nuclear families. There is violence and emotional deprivation amongst white-picket-fence suburban mother-father families.
In the past, single mothers were vilified, and any children born "outside wedlock" were ostracised. Happily, this is no longer true.
SO, do homophobes now wish to transfer this vilification to the children of same-sex parents? If the judgmental attitude were not there, the vilification would not exist.
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David Corbett
Air Emission Analyst
"risk of vilification"?
So they're complaining they can't vilify same-sex couples because they risk being vilified for it?
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Sue Ieraci
Homosexual couples will probably not have that many children, as it is too expensive to have them through surrogacy, and there appears to be considerable legal aspects now involved with IVF and sperm and egg donation.
But there does seem to be quite a few studies involving children of homosexual couples, and virtually nothing undertaken of children in single parent families who are much more common.
I wonder why that is so?
Dale Bloom
Analyst
David Corbett
There are causes for concern regards homosexual couples and children. Some studies show higher rates of separation and higher rates of domestic violence. There also appears to be conflict often occurring between the birth parent and the non-birth parent in lesbian couples.
All that may be overlooked by research in an attempt to make the research PC.
However the biggest social issues in our society seem to be related to divorce, single parent families, de facto relationships and fatherless children, and rarely are these issues being researched.
I attribute this lack of research (that verges on negligence) to the dominance of feminism in social science.
Sue Ieraci
Public hospital clinician
Dale Bloom - yet another baseless assertion: "virtually nothing undertaken of children in single parent families"
Virtually nothing? Are you sure you looked properly this time?
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Sue Ieraci,
Well where is the reliable research of children in single parent families? There appears to be some research of children born through IFV, and that research does not often show positive outcomes for those children, with many children wanting to know their real parent. I would question the assertion that children of homosexual couples are "generally doing very well" as stated in this article.
Very very little social science research is reliable, and I believe this is because of so much subjective bias and feminism in social science.
But before someone thinks of IVF or surrogacy, they should contact their lawyer before their doctor, because the legal aspects of IVF or surrogacy are now a legal minefield.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
"Some studies show higher rates of separation and higher rates of domestic violence."
Which studies - and by which social scientists? Is this some social science work you actually support?
Dale Bloom
Analyst
You can look it up for yourself.
However I would question any social science research, and regard very little of it as reliable.
The submission by the doctors to the Senate Inquiry would probably be as reliable as anything from social science, or someone could talk to the neighbour over the fence and that would be just as reliable also.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
"You can look it up for yourself"
Dale in my experience that phrase, unless accompanied by a reference, is usually code for "Some studies show what I want them to because I imagined them".
I'd be pleased if you would provide some actual backing for your claims.
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Grendels,
I remember you. You’re the social science student who thinks social science is reliable. This comes from “The American College of Paediatricians”
“Violence between same-sex partners is two to three times more common than among married heterosexual couples.25,26,27,28,29 Same-sex partnerships are significantly more prone to dissolution than heterosexual marriages with the average same-sex relationship lasting only two to three years.30,31,32,33 Homosexual men and women are reported to…
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Senior Nerd
Dale who are the American College of Pediatricians? They are not the major professional association of pediatricians which is the American Academy of Pediatrics - oh wait, yes that is right, they are the splinter group of religious conservatives that formed their own organisation after the AAP endorsed the tight of same sex couples to adopt when its research found that same sex adoptions had equal or better outcomes to heterosexual adoption.
The ACP is a group that has been repeatedly accused…
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Analyst
Grendels,
So there is subjectivity occurring amongst paediatricians. I never would have thought there could be subjectivity occurring.
Odd how I have never once seen a study that shows the rates of domestic violence and relationship dissolution are ever less than that of heterosexual couples. As for jealousy occurring amongst lesbian couples, it appears some have now resorted to IVF where one supplies the egg and the other caries the baby to avoid conflicts over who actually owns the baby.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19197649
The male sperm donor is superfluous of course, but what a mix up.
Personally I think it impossible that legislation can ever sort out the problems that are likely to occur if homosexuals want to have children. If society accepts homosexuals attempting to have children, society will be forever trying to find a solution to problems that have no solution.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
"Personally I think it impossible that legislation can ever sort out the problems that are likely to occur if homosexuals want to have children. If society accepts homosexuals attempting to have children, society will be forever trying to find a solution to problems that have no solution."
What?
Homosexuals already have children - the issue is whether they can be married.
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Grendels,
Only a relatively few homosexual couples are having children, and the problems are already occurring. Such as surrogate mothers wanting the child back, or sperm donors to lesbian couples being asked to pay child support.
Such legal problems of homosexuals having children have not been mentioned in articles on The Conversation and elsewhere, because many of these legal problems have no satisfactory solution for anyone.
If it is to be decided by society whether or not homosexuals can get married and have children, it should also be said to society that many problems will likely occur that have no solution.
Maddy Jones
logged in via Facebook
Dale,
It appears you providing legal advice in your post. Are you qualified to do so?
Could you possibly provide some citations to support your assertions?
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
Maddy, Dale is forever giving us advice in areas he is unqualified to even discuss let alone dispense wisdom - mostly in areas of law, ethics or other social sciences - a general field he purports to loath but one he consistently attempts to engage in.
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Maddy,
This comes from a website “Gay Dads Australia” regards surrogacy.
“You should always seek appropriate legal advice from a qualified practitioner. Surrogacy is an area where changes occur regularly and as such information in this guide may be out of date.”
http://www.gaydadsaustralia.com/surrogacy/
So even gay rights groups are not certain of much. The laws concerning IVF also vary between states and another legal minefield.
Sean Lamb
Science Denier
Link #1
"Participants included 44 12- to 18-year-old adolescents parented by same-sex couples and 44 same-aged adolescents parented by opposite-sex couples, matched on demographic characteristics and drawn from a national sample."
Link #2
"METHODS In this study, 27 families headed by single heterosexual mothers (solo mothers) and 20 families headed by lesbian mothers were compared with 36 two-parent heterosexual families as the child entered adulthood."
36?, 44?? Surely Dr Crouch is a highly paid sabotage agent acting on behalf of the Vatican when he throws these micro studies up as conclusive evidence of anything beyond the ability of the authors to count to double figures.
I protest, this is a clear attempt to discredit marriage equality but throwing up such equivocal surveys as definitive effort while simultaneously hiding the large scale, rigorous studies that must be out there.
Shame!
Sean Lamb
Science Denier
"Groups such as Doctors for the Family only serve to propagate such stigma and discrimination. Contrary to their stated objective to “ensure a healthy future for our children,” they’re harming the very people they claim to protect."
!!!!! Name one child that Doctors for the Family have harmed!!!!!
Can't you see what Dr Crouch is doing here, by putting forward such easily discreditable points he is making all genuine Marriage Equality advocates look bad by association.
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David Corbett
Air Emission Analyst
I think you may have missed the point.
Anne Powles
logged in via Twitter
After working with children for many years I would agree that children with same-sex parents can be very well adjusted. Care should be taken at puberty to be subtle about sex. This need for some subtlety also applies to gender reassigned parents.
AND to the sexual behaviours of heterosexual parents.
Remember sex is not for the "oldies"! (They will learn far too soon they were wrong.)
Michael Brown
Professional, academic, company director
Those sample sizes are laughingly small and so the studies are completely meaningless. Your headline is baseless and quite misleading.
You and the research you quote will probably be proven right in the long run but at present the only appropriate conclusion is "we don't know yet".
Please keep an open mind, stay apolitical and report back when you have some real facts and data.
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mark dastoli
strategic planner
At least Crouch has acknowledged up front the small numbers and need for broader research. The Hype of the title is that created by Doctors for Family; and Crouch's point is that they presented no credible balance of evidence to suggest that kids with same-sex parents are NOT well adjusted. Therefore, the headline is neither baseless nor misleading.
The point is that it's a case for evidence as opposed to selective misrepresentation of compromised data bolstered by opinionated hooey.
I wonder where Doctors for Family stand on alternate health therapies that we've had so much debate about lately?
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Hillary Conway
Researcher
Good on Simon Crouch and his team for this research. It is great that this research is being done in Australia and is aiming for such large numbers of participants. Everyone acknowledges, including Dr Crouch, that previous studies have tended to be small, although the cumulative results of all these small studies have had similar conclusions - kids with same sex parents do just fine. Many of them have grown up now and as young adults are still doing just fine. All these studies also show that a loving family with good parenting - whatever the sexual orientation of the parents - is the single most important thing for children.
Children really do not care about the sexual orientation of their parents - they care about love and consistency. And then they get on with being kids - interested in football, ballet, reading, dolls, bikes, computer games etc etc etc
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Sue Ieraci
Public hospital clinician
There is already a lot of research output on what makes a well-adjusted child. Children need to feel wanted and loved, they need physical and emotional closeness and affection, they need mental and physical stimulation, a sense of self-worth and security - etc etc.
One thing that tends to distinguish same-sex parents is that their children tend to be truly wanted and planned.
Other than that, they can be as good or as bad as anyone else in providing the conditions above.
Many people who grew up in the fifties had strong male and female role models. The mother could be poorly educated and occupied with domestic work, or could (rarely) have been an academic, or an actress, or a secretary. The father could have worked long hours, and been too tired to pay attention to the children. He might also have been an academic, an alcoholic, loving, violent, or just distant. All good role models? By no means.
Thomas Boulton
Consultant
A few minor points.
Firstly connecting the ability or right to be a parent with marriage is no longer a recognised component of our society, despite what other may think we have been moving away from an assumption that the two are linked for some time now.
Secondly most evidence agrees that the largest factor that contributes to the wellbeing of children is the complex interaction of poverty, family stability and abuse. It's difficult to see how any of these three are directly correlated with…
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Anthropologist
Despite Freud, children make 'sexual orientation decisions' virtually from infancy, except that it is too often ignored that children make primarily social orientation decisions far in advance and at a far higher priority than firstly who they may find they desire sexual intimacy with, and secondly whether that person happens to be the same sex as they are.
It usually goes something like this, correct me if you beg to differ:
1. Jim is my classmate at school, we live in the same neighbourhood…
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Chris Barry
logged in via Twitter
Last night on QandA Joe Hockey said “I don’t believe we necessarily make better parents because we’re male and female” yet he is opposed to same-sex marriage because “I think in this life we’ve got to aspire to give our children the very best circumstances, and that is a mother and a father.”
This is either extreme cognitive dissonance or Joe Hockey's personal beliefs don't match his political ones.
Chris Barry
logged in via Twitter
If you believe this is purely a social issue (as I do) then it is up to us as said society to decide what is right and not discriminate unfairly against our members. Starting with the premise that there is nothing wrong with homosexuality (as I do), then the next logical premise is that there is nothing lesser about homosexual marriage or homosexual parents (both these premises can and have been studied and challenged).
I am glad we are spending time studying and analysing parenting, and I hope…
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Anthropologist
Yes, I agree generally with Simon's view yet continue to ask what have the sex, sexual orientation or gender of children's carers to do with anything?
I'd be prepared to argue, not only from 15 years of personal experience battling to raise children alone but from extensive studies, that what affects children most is instability in the home, and the extent to which those who are caring for them get along together.
Seeing their care-givers fighting and arguing induces harmful fear, doubt and…
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Senior Lecturer in International Business at RMIT University
Great Job! Stigmatization is a pure form of prejudice against same-sex family. It is important for us to see more of this kind of research. The findings will be truly interesting.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
Homosexual couples are just as prone to fighting and relationship break down as heterosexual couples.
So please desist with this implied nonsense that homosexual couples provide a more stable family environment for children than heterosexual couples.
As well as the usual family relationship problems that all couples may encounter, homosexual couples have added complications, including external prejudice, that children must cope with.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
I think the implication is that they can provide a family environment that is "as stable" and as for external prejudice - if you want to reduce it, support gay marriage.
Yeah - relationships no matter what the gender mix break down - your first sentence is useful in illustrating that "Homosexual couples are just as prone to fighting and relationship break down as heterosexual couples."
Just change the order a little and we get:
Heterosexual couples are just as prone to fighting and relationship break down as homosexual couples.
It is true either way, and in either case hard on the kids - so what is the point?
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
Yeah well I think gay couples and their supporters are guilty of gilding the lily on this issue.
My position is based on the evolutionary fact that same sex couples were not 'designed' to procreate and I don't believe it is in the wider interests of human kind to actively facilitate them to do so.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
That is not to say that homosexuality is wrong in and of itself.
On the contrary human sexuality is more like a spectrum from male to female than an absolute or series of absolutes. And this is not confined to homo sapiens.
But never the less homosexuality has no evolutionary merit. If humans were inherently homosexual then we would rapidly become extinct as a species.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
"But never the less homosexuality has no evolutionary merit. If humans were inherently homosexual then we would rapidly become extinct as a species."
Logic suggests that there is actually very likely some evolutionary merit for a tendency within some of any given populations towards homosexuality - it occurs in many species. Also you appear to be making the assumption that homosexuality precludes sexual reproduction when the reality is that this is true only in individuals thwt remain exclusively…
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Lanscaper and former medical scientist
All characteristics of all species do not automatically have evolutionary merit.
Our genes and characteristics are subject processes other than evolution e.g. genetic drift, linkage, epigenetics and many others.
It is likely that homosexuality is a result of one of these other processes and does not confer benefit to our species as a whole.
And many of the problems that western society is experiencing, and not just homosexuality related issues, is the result of this foolish notion that has…
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Equities trader
@ Greg: "gild the lilly"? To "wastefully and unnecessarily adding to something that is already perfect."
Are you for or against marriage equality?
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
"All characteristics of all species do not automatically have evolutionary merit.
Our genes and characteristics are subject processes other than evolution e.g. genetic drift, linkage, epigenetics and many others."
Agree
"It is likely that homosexuality is a result of one of these other processes and does not confer benefit to our species as a whole."
Speculation - and one for which there is research in opposition.
A study examining a reported higher level of female fertility among…
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Lanscaper and former medical scientist
As matter of fact I also do not believe that infertile heterosexual copules should be subsidized to have children.
It appears often, though not always, that there is a specific biological reason why they are infertile e.g. both parents being carriers of a detrimental genetic mutation. Actively facilitating such couples to pass on those genes may be be detrimental to the human species as a whole.
And there are a number of scientific studies that show that 'test tube babies' have a much higher…
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Lanscaper and former medical scientist
Circumventing natural selection screening of the human gene pool on a large scale and over a long enough period of time will increase the proportion of dependant (on the state) humans.
And that is clearly not environmentally or socially sustainable in the long term.
Sorry if hard truths hurt but there you have it.
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Grendels,
Surrogacy costs seem to start at $100,000 per child, and the public should not be asked to fund that. It is not life threatening if a gay couple does not have a child, and there are aspects of surrogacy that have considerable ethical questions and many in the public would object to it.
It could also be said the public shouldn’t be asked to fund IVF also, for homosexual or heterosexual couples. In fact, IVF seems to be heading towards designer babies, and banning IVF completely may be a suitable step for society.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
In fact eugenics is practised in fertility assistance on a routine basis and you are no doubt entirely comfortable with it.
Artificially fertilised embryos with downs syndrome are routinely destroyed or aborted. Similarly with other genetic disorders for which there are tests that can detect them.
I am merely suggesting that are is a far greater number of genetic disorders for which there is no screening tests available now nor is there likelihood of any in the forseeable future.
Therefore the long term benefits of assisted fertility to the individual couples is greatly out weighed by the long term costs imposed on wider society.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
Dale - are the public being asked to fund surrogacy?
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
Greg - you've gone off on a far tangent - I'm making the point that an equitable policy should be applied - whichever policy that may be, and it sill be up to society to determine what it is willing to support.
"In fact eugenics is practised in fertility assistance on a routine basis and you are no doubt entirely comfortable with it."
Big assumption. No, actually I'm not entirely comfortable, however I do understand the rationale.
"I am merely suggesting that are is a far greater number…
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Analyst
Grendels,
If you want equality then surrogacy for male homosexuals would have to be funded by the public, as the public funds IVF for female homosexuals. However, surrogacy has considerable ethical questions and is banned in a number of countries.
Each time surrogacy or IVF are carried out, the child loses their natural mother or father, but the child isn’t asked about that. Mixing human sperm with animal eggs to test viability during IVF borders on bestiality, and the drugs given to women during IVF are also nonnatural and questionable.
None of this artificial production of children is good parenting practice.
So the idea that homosexual parents carry out “good parenting” is subjective opinion only.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
Frankly I am sick to death of the both of you (gays and bible thumpers) arguing about this boring and unimportant issue, considering our mounting environmental/food/energy problems.
If it was up to me I would give neither of you imbeciles what you want as previously outlined.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
I would certainly go along with that.......banning or at least ending all public subsidies for IVF.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
I would certainly go along with that.......banning or at least ending all public subsidies for IVF.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
I suggest you update your reading about assisted reproductive technology Dale:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1181938/
http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/stories/s904186.htm
This alone would suggest strongly that the long term costs out weigh the short term benefits for couples, heterosexual or homosexual.
Dale Bloom
Analyst
Greg Boyles
"This alone would suggest strongly that the long term costs out weigh the short term benefits for couples, heterosexual or homosexual."
I would agree.
“Design of the studies we propose is a complex question that itself requires further study and discussion—hopefully in an appropriate forum and with broad input from investigators, practitioners, and ethicists to ensure appropriate study design and privacy protection.”
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1181938/
So there are no properly planned studies being undertaken, but ART is being carried out anyway. As well as bad science, it is not good parenting
I would think it time to ban both ART and surrogacy.
Luke Mancell
Equities trader
You mistake the matter, Greg. I am neither gay nor a bible thumper, quite the opposite on both fronts.
Because you do not agree with my arguments it doesn't make me an imbecile. I don't agree with you, does that make you an imbecile? If we both call each other imbeciles we have achieved nothing. If you have a case make it and let it stand on its merits instead of undermining others with mudslinging.
We don't have an either/or here. Marriage equality isn't going to contribute to environmental…
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Lanscaper and former medical scientist
For starters "you imbeciles" was an impatient rant at the forum at large rather than to you personally.
And secondly I do not believe that homosexuals should have mariage equality.
As I have stated I support sucking the oxygen entirely out of this debate by quarentining homosexuals and bible thumpers from each other over this irritating marriage equality issue.
Abolish the marriage act and replace it with a totally secular civil union act.
Everyone, regardless or relgion or sexual preference has to obtain a civil union for legal purposes.
Homosexuals then get their equality.
Marriage is then merely a religious option of no legal importance.
Bible thumpers then don't have homosexual unions impinging on their relgious sensitivities, which frankly I also don't give a $%^& about.
Greg Boyles
Lanscaper and former medical scientist
" precludes concerns for all other issues"
No I don't.
But arguing over marriage equality does greatly distract from the critically important issues that we should be discussing very seriously indeed.
David Tuck
Scientist
Some species have the ability to change sex when the ratio of males and females in the society is out of balance. Humans are obviously incapable of this but there is a theory that they may undergo neuro-physiological changes which affect their sexual orientation in response to an uneven ratio of males and females in their environment. In mammals this theory is also applied to servo-mechanistic control mechanisms in relation to polulation vs. resources which may help to avoid the crisis event which occurs when population outstrips resources. We're currently on track for that to happen in the year 2020. These are unproven theories as yet but still very interesting.
David Tuck
Scientist
Hmm, that was supposed to be a reply to Greg Boyles post about the evolution of homosexuality. Another point that I would like to make independent of that is that is has been proven that children are better off growing up in a family with both biological parents than with one or neither biological parent. This is because behavioural genes direct an animal to invest in other animals that share close geneological relatedness with that animal. As the parent/offspring relationship is the closest relationship possible, behavioural genes direct an animal to show the greatest amount of altruism towards their offspring. This is an unconscious fixed action pattern which serves to maximise the survival chances of an animals offspring and the passing on of genes into the next generation. This study is explained and referenced in : Russel, P. J., 2007, Biology: The dynamic science, (1st edition), Brooks/Cole Cengage Learning, Belmont CA. pp. 1281-1286
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
David, you are referencing a High school biological textbook, rather than the study itself - do you have the title or author of the study rather than a textbook otherwise it is impossible to know to which study you refer.
David Tuck
Scientist
Grendels, that text is part of the course material for my undergraduate psychology Bsc. Don't be deliberately offensive just because you're overly emotional about this issue. I said that the study is explained and referenced in the text, find it yourself unless you're too lazy.
David Tuck
Scientist
I could not agree more with that sentiment. As a scientist I don't mind sharing some of my knowledge to people that are interested in learning, but when you get people that want to argue the point because they are upset that natural selection doesn't take their emotions into account it drives me crazy. I see no difference between the religious right who have now resorted to calling science and alternative 'religion' seeing as it has been so succesful about disproving nearly everything they believe, and the ones on the far left who try to twist facts about human biology to meet their own ideology. In my opinion this discussion board discourages scientists from sharing their knowledge when doing so means attracting harrasment from people with radicalised opinions.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
David, it was not an attempt to be offensive at all, when I went and looked up the reference I found it listed as a high school biol text on Amazon. As it is a text book it's contents cannot be accessed online, and what you have referenced is not the study but the entire book so I have no idea to what study you are referring. I'm not studying you course and thus don't have access to the text, or the six pages within it you listed.
David Tuck
Scientist
Ok. The area of research that I was refering to is commonly called 'The Cinderella effect'. There is a huge body of research available about it online and the common but very simplified conclusions on the subject are what I stated earlier. The text that I mentioned refers specifically to Wilson and Daly's work but there is much more available than that. Try searching Daly and Wilson Cinderella Effect. The Wikipedia entry lists a lot of references as well, around 40 research papers.
David Tuck
Scientist
I totally agree with that statement, for the first time in history it is now possible for parents to pass infertility on to their children. That probably doesn't matter so much when people have access to IVF, but what happens if and when they don't? Will the offpring of those people always live in a society that is stable enough to support the infrastructure that provides that kind of treatment, or even live in an area in a stable society where it is provided? It raises huge ethical concerns about the way in which scientists are altering the human genome, and that is without even getting into the debate about IVF funding etc.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
David I am familiar with Wilson and Daly's work, but their research has been strongly focussed on whether there is an evolutionary trigger for propensity to care - their samples for this were natural families and step families and I am not sure that you can make a valid extrapolation to same-sex families given the interpersonal relationship dynamic shifts that occur with family amalgamation that results when step-parent relationships are formed that may or may not also be present in other family…
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Scientist
Grendles, the fact that children are better off growing up in a family with both biological parents than with one or no biological parents is clearly relevant when you're talking about same sex parenting, as that means by definition that only one of those parents can be the biological parent. And who said that it is my assertion? It's not my work. You can claim confounding factors all you want but the fact remains that those children can will only have one biological parent in their environment and that is what the Cinderella Effect is about. What could possibly change so much in a study that includes same sex relationships that could be a confounding factor? And how do you even know that no families that included step parents due to same sex reltionships were in the study? You're too quick to try to nullify the results of what is a huge body of work. It seems that you're being driven by a desire to disprove this study because you want science to be in line with your personal opinion.
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
"You're too quick to try to nullify the results of what is a huge body of work. It seems that you're being driven by a desire to disprove this study because you want science to be in line with your personal opinion." And you are too quick to settle on the one research finding that seems on the surface to support your position. You are applying the work of two researchers in evolutionary psychology to circumstances possibly beyond its application. That is bad science. And as for disproving the study - I have attempted to do nothing of the kind. It is an extensive and valuable body of work, what I was suggesting is that you have oversimplified the findings then applied them into other circumstances.
David Tuck
Scientist
I don't even know where to begin with that statement. Firstly, I'd like to know why if you were already familiar with Wilson and Daly's work then why didn't you recognise it when I described it in my first post on this subject? I think that you need to read up on it a lot more because you don't seem to be grasping the subtleties involved with the behavioural differences between a biological parent and child vs. a non biological parent. Secondly, as I stated in my last post, how do you know that step-parents from same sex relationships weren't included in the studies? It's incredible that you're accusing me of bad science by trying to use the Cinderella Effect support my position. What is my position exactly? Have I stated one apart from giving the results of the study?. Can I ask what it is that you are studying?
Grendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
I didn't recognise it because:
Read more"behavioural genes direct an animal to invest in other animals that share close geneological relatedness with that animal. As the parent/offspring relationship is the closest relationship possible, behavioural genes direct an animal to show the greatest amount of altruism towards their offspring. This is an unconscious fixed action pattern which serves to maximise the survival chances of an animals offspring and the passing on of genes into the next generation…
David Tuck
Scientist
Grendels, this conversation is getting really old but I want to clarify that as I said, I do not have a position on same sex marriage apart from what I've learned about the effects of children in step parent relationships from the studies involving the Cinderalla Effect and I implied nothing further than that. To answer your question I studied evolutionary psychology hence my knowledge on the issue. I had a feeling that you might have been studying law by the way that you're trying to disprove the…
Read moreGrendelus Malleolus
Senior Nerd
I saw your response to Greg earlier - but I don't think that you could characterise what I have said as twisting facts about human biology. From that response I can only assume you don't support same-sex parenting on the grounds that evolution says no.
Your point about statistics would be entirely valid (I manage a department comprised entirely of psychologists, researchers and statisticians so it is not new ground for me) if I were making a criticism of the methods used by Wilson and Daly - but I am not, I merely question the applicability of their results - not to the general population as you state, but to a tangentally related cohort (part of the general population but with substantial behavioural differences).
David Tuck
Scientist
Not neccesarily, for me the jury is still out on that one. I don't know if you've read the other evolutionary theories I stated the other day about homosexuality as well? I found the point about kin selection applied to homosexual relatives interesting because I'd only ever heard of it applied in the sibling and post-menopausal grandparent relationship context before that but it makes sense.
On a purely personal note and more of a sociological one, I'm not sure if I even believe in hetero-sexual…
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