MATTERS OF THE MIND – a series which examines the clinician’s bible for diagnosing mental disorders, the DSM, and the controversy surrounding the forthcoming fifth edition.
Grief is one of the most universal and distressing experiences that humans suffer.
For most people, the emotional pain of losing someone close to them lasts for a relatively brief period. Many studies indicate that by six months after bereavement, most people begin to experience remission of the severe grief response. Waves of grief may come and go for months or years afterwards but these reactions don’t impair or limit a person’s capacity to engage in life’s activities.
In contrast, a proportion of bereaved people (approximately 10% to 15%) suffer persistent grief that can last for many years. Many studies from different countries and cultural settings have documented that severe yearning for the deceased that persists beyond six months is associated with marked impairment and difficulty in engaging with people and in activities.
This is why the DSM-5 has proposed a new diagnosis to represent this condition, known as adjustment disorder related to bereavement. The persistent yearning can be associated with difficulty accepting the death, feelings of loss of a part of oneself, anger about the loss, guilt or blame over the death, or difficulty in engaging with new social or other activities due to the loss. To meet diagnostic criteria, the symptoms must persist beyond six months after the death and affect the person’s ability to function in day-to-day life.
The World Health Organization’s proposed International Classification of Diseases 11th Revision (ICD-11) also includes a new diagnosis, termed prolonged grief disorder, which is defined similarly.

There has been enormous and emotive debate over the extent to which prolonged grief should be recognised as a mental disorder.
Traditionally, the DSM has precluded grief as a diagnostic disorder on the basis that it “an expectable and culturally sanctioned response to a particular event”. Supporting this line, opponents of the new diagnosis argue that grief is:
- a ubiquitous condition insofar as death and loss is part of being human, and so emotional pain that is felt following bereavement should not be medicalised
- managed differently across cultures and so a single diagnostic system cannot apply to all cultures
- unlike most other psychological responses in that it is closely interwoven into religious practices
- adequately described by existing anxiety and depression reactions so there’s no need to identify it as a distinct construct.
Supporting the introduction of the new diagnosis is compelling data that counters these criticisms. First, factor analytic studies demonstrate that the key feature of the grief response (yearning for the deceased) is distinct from anxiety and depression, and they contribute uniquely to the impairment suffered by these individuals.
Second, the 10% to 15% of bereaved people who suffer persistent severe grief reactions experience marked psychological, social, health, or occupational impairment. This can include other psychological problems (such as depression, suicidality, substance abuse), poor health behaviours (increased tobacco use), medical disorders (high blood pressure, elevated cancer rates, increased cardiovascular disorder), and functional disability.
Third, prolonged grief has been shown across a wide range of cultures, including non-western settings, as well as across the lifespan.
Fourth, and importantly, whereas bereavement-related depression responds to antidepressants, grief reactions do not. In contrast, treatments specifically targeted towards the core symptoms of prolonged grief are effective in alleviating the condition, and more effective than treatments that target depression.

A major issue influencing the introduction of the new diagnosis is the requirement to identify bereaved people in need of appropriate mental health care and to ensure they receive appropriate treatment.
Studies have repeatedly shown that leaving this condition untreated will result in the affected people suffering marked psychological, medical, and social problems. On the premise that up to 15% of bereaved people experience complicated grief, there are over 70,000 new cases of prolonged grief in the United States each year, representing a very significant public health issue.
A common concern is that many people presenting to health providers with grief are misdiagnosed with depression, and prescribed antidepressants. The available evidence indicates this will not assist recovery from prolonged grief.
Several studies have shown that cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) is an effective intervention for prolonged grief. Cognitive behaviour therapy is a talking therapy that typically gets the person to focus on memories of the death and the relationship in a structured way. They learn more adaptive ways of appraising the loss and their relationship with the deceased, and then develop strategies for re-engaging with other people and activities.
Although CBT does not alleviate all prolonged grief cases, it is the best treatment we currently have available.
The concerns about potentially medicalising grief reactions and over-diagnosis are justified, however the proposed criteria have sufficient safe-guards built in. By limiting the diagnosis to persistent severe reactions that extend beyond 12 months after the bereavement, only a minority of bereaved people will receive this new diagnosis.
Hopefully, people suffering this potentially debilitating condition will now be able to receive the right treatment to allow them to move on with their life.
This is the ninth part of our series Matters of the Mind. To read the other instalments, follow the links below:
Part one: Explainer: what is the DSM and how are mental disorders diagnosed?
Part two: Forget talking, just fill a script: how modern psychiatry lost its mind
Part three: Strange or just plain weird? Cultural variation in mental illness
Part four: Don’t pull your hair out over trichotillomania
Part five: When stuff gets in the way of life: hoarding and the DSM-5
Part six: Psychiatric labels and kids: benefits, side-effects and confusion
Part seven: Redefining autism in the DSM-5
Part eight: Depression, drugs and the DSM: a tale of self-interest and public outrage
Part ten:: Internet use and the DSM-5’s revival of addiction
Chris Borthwick
Writer
Hold it, hold it. The study (not studies) cited as supporting this expansion has no untreated control group, meaning that the claimed gains also include those who would have got better anyway. Still, with only 83 subjects it would have been hard to split it again. Colour me unimpressed.
Chris H
Psychologist
This is a serious area - grief historically has not been given sufficient respect and there are consequences for not taking the time to work through grief later in life. However, this article does little to reduce my fears re medicalising a natural human process. A percentage of people will definitely experience cyclical grief well beyond normal parameters, and the difference between grief and depression is significant. However, the goal posts have moved in the last decade or so. It used to be taught that grief from bereavement generally lasted from a min 6 months to max 24 months before being categorized as a problem ('disorder' or otherwise). There is a lot more in the article and issue than can be covered in a quick response but given the history to date of developing markets for pharma, this business of diagnosing grief as a disorder continues to worry me. I also note that how grief interacts with different personal and societal values wasn't really discussed.
empty chair
logged in via Twitter
I agree that there are very real concerns with respect to over-medicalising 'normal' human responses but there are cases in which, for example, the bereavement is complicated by a prolonged period of caring for the loved one before they die, often where they are exposed to the chronic suffering and the need to be on call. This often results in hypervigilance etc akin to that seen in post traumatic stress. There are so many possible variables that can characterise the circumstances of the death, it should not be surprising that there are many and varied responses, including prolonged grief, seen in the bereaved.
Susan Kirwan
Paralegal
Grief is a very unique experience, therefore any treatment available needs to address specifically the factors that is prolonging the suffering of a grieving person. I went through a devastating loss of my child 12 years ago and still have waves of emotional turmoil. After this episodes settle within me, i reflect and try to see what triggers this within me so that I can recognize it in order to control them. I have realised from doing this numerous times that I cannot forsee triggers and can…
Read moreSusan Kirwan
Paralegal
Sorry about that, by accident I pressed 'Post comment', so there may be a couple of grammar and spelling mistakes in my last post.
Suppressing any sort of feeling, especially if you know they're painful, can alter your everyday existence. It's like there is a darkness that taints everything you touch. I gather all the strength I have to try and stand with that darkness and peel it away, working through every layer, until I find the light again.
I believe therapy in terms of allowing…
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Lecturer at Swinburne University of Technology
There are two sides to the DSM (at least) it seems. The dark side is medicalisation of various aspects of (socially conditioned) life the other is general critique
General (diagnostic) Problems
On Acute stress and DSM IV http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/article.aspx?articleid=173780
Longitudinal studies using acute stress disorder criteria, as well as broader considerations of the clinical and scientific functions that posttraumatic diagnoses should serve, suggest a need to reevaluate the current DSM-IV approach to posttraumatic syndromes.
http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1998-04425-001 Schizophrenia
Cultural critique
http://tps.sagepub.com/content/35/3/387.short
Just a selection
More care is needed
Yoron Hamber
Thinking
Grief is difficult, as is depression. But they're also part of living, just as happiness and laughter is. All part of being human, or better expressed, living as I think. In those cases where you see how people lose their footing, unable to function normally, you need to step in. But for the most cases I think people find their own way to deal with it. But for those that can't CBT seems as a way out, to a more normal life. But it craves a lot of those guiding..