We see gender differences everywhere – in the psychology, thoughts and behaviour of men and women. But the inclination to see differences makes us blind to the overwhelming similarities of men and women…
Sexual expression is important for the health and well-being of older people.
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You wouldn’t be alone in feeling frustrated, isolated, devalued and depressed if you were suddenly labelled “asexual” at your next birthday. Millions of older Australians feel the same way when they’re…
There has been very little scientific evidence so far to support sex as a method of inducing labour.
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Sex. It’s what got you into pregnancy, but is it also the pathway to getting you out?
Around a quarter of all Australian pregnancies are medically induced, with a third of those inductions occurring due…
Things we’d normally turn our noses up at can become more manageable when we’re aroused.
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Does it seem strange that we will enthusiastically kiss an attractive person’s mouth, with tongues intertwining and saliva going everywhere, but that we might wrinkle our nose up at the idea of using that…
If an athlete believes sex will harm their performance, there’s a good chance it will.
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From the ancient Greeks to modern soccer World Cups and the Olympics, there has been an enduring belief by some athletes and coaches that engaging in sexual activity before athletic competitions may be…
The history of the vibrator is improbable, with some fascinating milestones.
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Vibrators have been causing a buzz for as long as they’ve existed: sometimes this happens behind closed doors, and sometimes in the public sphere. But as the new film Hysteria shows, there’s still fascination…
Two-thirds more men than women have been paid for sex in Australia, and all sex workers have rights.
Jason Pier in DC
When one reads an opinion piece littered with references to “liberal elites”, it is usually a safe bet that one is reading an inherently conservative point of view dressed up to look progressive. So it…
Questions of cuckoldry and fidelity have always existed – and comfort has come from religious customs.
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Religious leaders and holy texts share deep preoccupations with sex and reproduction. From Islamic purdah to Jewish menstrual purity laws, to Vatican neuroses about everything from contraception to masturbating…
Cheating on a partner is always a choice, not a biologically determined effect.
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Biologists and psychologists like to tussle with human characteristics: what’s inherent? What’s learnt? What’s genetically coded? What’s malleable? Every so often an “expert” will reignite the nature vs…
Taboos in porn can be shocking, but they can also be very revealing about our sexual apetites.
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Fat people having sex, ugly people having sex, old people having sex. All too readily our culture cringes, shudders, if not gags at the thought. After all, if film and television have taught us anything…
Is there a genuine rise in the appeal for sadomasochist behaviour among women in 2012?
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The poster for Secretary is up on my wall at work. I actually paid to see A Dangerous Method purely for Jung’s novel approach to therapy (and God do I hate period films.) While I probably won’t read all…
Our debates about porn are stuck in the past.
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It seems Australians aren’t ready for a real debate on porn and sex. Yet.
The Australian reported last month that Telstra was offering “soft-core pornography” with titles like “Dirty Housewife and Hot…
The Australian Sex Party was launched at Sexpo in 2008 by leader Fiona Patten.
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“Where’s the party?"
“Can I join?”
“Is this legitimate?”
These were just a few of the questions I was asked during my eight-hour shift as a volunteer for The Australian Sex Party (ASP) at their booth…
This is just asking for trouble.
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Few of us consider that having sex could result in a violent, instantaneous death. But in nature, where sex and violence are often two sides of the same coin, many animals are routinely subjected to such…
Chief of the Defence Force General David Hurley and Minister for Defence Stephen Smith respond to reviews into Defence’s culture and the Skype scandal.
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Defence minister Stephen Smith has released the findings of a series of reviews into last year’s ADFA sex scandal and the culture of the defence force.
The scandal revolved around an incident in March…
The upcoming SBS documentary Scarlet Road follows sex worker Rachel Wotton and her relationships with her disabled clients.
Health care, fair trials and education are things we readily accept as human rights.
Unlike fresh air and food, we can actually live without school or a due process trial for a whole lot longer than without…
One in five people over 80 are sexually active but not all protect themselves against STIs.
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Why is it that when we combine the words “sex” and “older people” there’s a reaction of surprise, unease and awkwardness?
Is it because we believe older people don’t have sex? Or don’t have sexual fantasies…
So what’s it to be, buddy, my cave or yours?
Kaptain Kobold
We humans had sex with Neandertals; we bonked the relatives of Neandertals; we got down and dirty with members of an as-yet unrecognised African population; and we, of course, got jiggy with each other…
Grindr is an app that allows gay men to meet up for … fun and friendship.
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The second Stephen Fry mentioned Grindr on Top Gear of course its popularity surged. Not only did the app – designed to help homosexual blokes hook up with those geographically convenient – surge in popularity…
Sex shops are venturing out into the High Street.
Paul Maginn
Cities are fizzing with opportunities to experience sex and sexuality. While sex usually takes place in private spaces, it is never really out of our minds. Unconsciously we “know” that it is taking place…
Nile was not the first to congratulate Penny Wong on her baby news.
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So Penny Wong, our finance minister, is going to be a mum. Sophie Allouache, Wong’s long-term partner, announced on Tuesday that her IVF-conceived baby will arrive in December.
While many commentators…
Rejoice, men: you may not need to hold your clock in dismay.
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If you’re in a room with 20 random blokes, it’s likely six or seven of them are worried about and unsatisfied with their ability to control their ejaculation during partnered sex.
In other words, these…
Guess what? It’s not so much size but the shape that matters.
Ozchin
Why should male genitalia be so variable? This problem has puzzled evolutionary biologists for decades.
Even to the experts, it can be difficult to tell closely-related species apart just by looking at…
Wild zebra finch pairs keep their eyes peeled for opportunities to cheat.
Simon Griffith
Infidelity between sexual partners is ubiquitous – almost as prevalent as the tight and long-lasting social bonds that couples form.
But thanks to a recent German study of Australian zebra finches, a…
Rock stars are successful in the bedroom, but all too often their wild lifestyle catches up with them.
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Kurt Cobain was the messiah of my generation, the monumental talent who saved rock from the mediocrity of 1980s cock rock and hair metal. But behind his public eminence stalked a personal hell of addiction…
When is a roll in the hay worth losing your head over?
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Sex is often viewed as a totally harmonious interaction between a male and female with the same innate goal – to produce offspring.
But it is becoming increasingly clear to biologists that the reproductive…
Porn allows us to explore desire safely and anonymously.
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Pornography is hardly an under-theorised medium.
For decades, radical feminists have decried its imagery as an instruction manual for rape. As women being objectified, humiliated, tortured. As men receiving…
Does homosexuality have something to offer everyone?
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Sexual orientation has long been cause for discussion and controversy, but just where does our sexual orientation come from? Are people “born gay” or are environmental causes at play?
Historically, many…
Stars like Jiz Lee and Dallas Fivestar are redefining porn for feminists.
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I was recently approached by a young journalist, who asked for my comments on the Feminist Porn Awards.
In the course of the interview, she asked if I thought feminists should watch porn. I replied that…
Matter of fact, I got it now… porn is more accessible than ever.
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There are several myths regarding what constitutes “porn addiction”.
Some argue that, like alcohol problems, porn addiction is a disease. Once trapped, the consumer of porn will hit rock bottom with no…
Women’s orgasms might be as useful as male nipples.
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Why do women have orgasms? That may seem like a strange question, but it’s one which has perplexed scientists for decades and provoked fiery academic debates along the way.
The real question is: what…
As a society, we seem to be obsessed by sex. So wondering out loud why we have it is likely to invite a highly bemused response.
And yet sex remains one of the great, enduring mysteries of evolutionary…
